here is the post that convinced me:
it's great to not be in pain, to be able to drink what you like, to be able to actually focus on things & not have to stay 10ft from the nearest toilet. Something is confusing me though. There's been lots of talk of “bypassing”. Some say it's only a little leak, but some say it's soaking clothes, as if there's no catheter. I've heard it's really painful, but when/if I leak it isn't, which surprises me as I have sensation.. Is it just the catheter draining,/am I bypassing.?? & why do I feel wet underneath, like I did when I wore adult diapers??